The first few steps in the development of a true individuality are often cathartic—the ability to laugh, which includes the ability to laugh at one’s petty habits and mannerisms. Today, with your magnetic personality, winning charm and “shoulder to lean on” you put others at ease, and perform miracles. Your calls, visits or welcoming others into your home scores you points. A family talk or outing yields encouraging news results. Sending upbeat e-mails or letters helps get people behind your pet project.