Whether it’s children real, or children symbolic, we’re all responsible for the feeding and raising of our progeny.  But also we need to be socially wise and contribute to “the ground” or context of life that is “community and culture.”  Acting on your feelings of certainty and what’s in the best interest of all involved gives you leverage and success.   Keeping discussions at the workplace focused and brief curbs delays—and gets an assignment in on schedule.  A fun or romantic encounter you have in the evening uplifts and puts you in a festive mood.